When the Heart Dreams is a daylong event for those who love to read romance novels, featuring 16 authors. To get you in the mood, Qcitymetro asked the featured authors to tell us what makes a man irresistible or desirable. And we challenged readers to do the same. Here are the winning entries.
My man is irresistible in many ways. I was attracted to him by his dark hair and blue eyes, as well as his self-confidence. His sarcastic sense of humor fits in with my dry wit perfectly. Sometimes I just have to look at him and we both start laughing at something we havenāt said out loud. His kindness and patience with children endear him, my husband of 37 years, to me. ā AMY
Letās see. What do I find irresistible about my man. Heās smart, heās funny, heās ALWAYS there when I need to escape from life. Heās dedicated, heās strong and independent, but sometimeās he needs a gentle touch. Heās well versed, well spoken and smooth. Handsome? Heās tall and dark..sometimes light or fair complexioned, but heās never without fault. At times he can be jealous or controlling, but thatās easily squelched with just the right turn of phrase. Heās a man of his wordā¦or wordsā¦he takes pleasure in the knowledge that he brings me pleasureā¦even if itās of the written variety. Who is my irresistible man? Well, youāve all written him. He is created by you in each book you publish and word you write. Youāve given voice to every desire I would have in a man and youāve brought him to life with each book that crosses my path. ā CASSANDRA
ICYMI: Hereās what the romance pros, like Kianna Alexander, Andria Gaskins and Sabrina Jeffries, find irresistible or desirable in a man. At the When the Heart Dreams event on Saturday, Feb. 11, you can chat with these authors, enjoy games and prizes, readings, a luncheon, book signings and a closing-night theme party.

Valentine special: Find romance at this authors event
The irresistible man possesses kindness, confidence, and a sense of humor. Heās masculine in a way thatās not defined by outside forces, yet sensitive enough to understand the needs of his partnerā¦. Read more

What makes a man irresistible, Part II
My dream man is strong and manly without being a bully or brutish. Heās not carrying my purse, but heāll make sure thereās some money in it. The only feminine side he wants to get in touch with is mine. Since Iām a little on the plus side, my dream guy is big and tall, that way I feel petite whenever heās aroundā¦. Read more

Ready for Valentineās Day? Let these romance writers inspire you
What makes a man desirable to me is self-confidence. And I donāt mean arrogance, which is TOO much confidence. I mean, an awareness of oneās own worth that makes a person comfortable in their own skinā¦. Read more